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Question: If I see a girl walking down the street, how do I meet her?
Answers:
Ms. Mystery: Easy! Simply say anything at all in order to strike up a conversation. Don't use any goofy or cheesy pickup lines (although those can work too). If she's interested, she'll reply and you can start a conversation. Easy to use things to say:
-Beautiful day!
-I love the color of your shirt.
-You have the most beautiful eyes.
-Who cuts your hair, because my sister's looking for a new hairdresser and you look great.
-My friend is dying to meet you (this works as a way for you to meet the girl yourself).
You get the point. Questions requiring an answer other than "yes" or "no" are best for conversation starters. The best thing
you can do is to think of girls as "people" not some scary creature you don't understand. Got it? The more practice, the easier it gets. Go out TODAY and buy the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People." It's an all time great book! This advice goes for girls who wish to meet guys, or people who just want to make friends. The key is you're just trying to "make friends" nothing more, then see what happens.
Mr Know: Wow! I'm the worst person to ask this because I'm shy. However, I know of a person who claims to have had sex with over 1000 women. I know him well enough to know that he's not lying. I actually saw him in action. He makes "Mystery", the Pickup Artist on VH1, look like an amateur. I've seen him pick up girls in a bar, the grocery store, and I know you won't believe it, but a gas station. Here's what I learned from the guy: You just walk up to them and say anything appropriate. When you do it, you have to be confident. You have to act as if you own the place. You have to act cool. Now, acting cool is a vague definition, but everyone knows what it means. What amazed me about the guy is that he wasn't better looking than me. But it was all about the numbers for him.
When I was younger, my sales manager told me that selling is numbers game (and I saw him get turned down many times). It applies to picking up women as well. You're gonna have to lean by trial and error. As a result of watching him I picked up my own style which worked for me. Good luck.
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