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Question: My boyfriend of four years is cheating on me with a girl who's 12 years younger and married! He is 33. He suddenly started hanging out with this girl and is totally nuts about her. I told him I know there's something going on but he denies it. I want to catch them in the act so he has to stop lying to me. What should I do? Catch them or go ahead and dump him? Should I call her husband? I want to humiliate them so they never do this again to anybody.

Answers:
Mr. Know:  I learned the hard way that revenge will not solve your pain. If I were you, I would dump that guy so fast he

wouldn't know what hit him. He's a loser. Let him go. Don't waste negative energy on this guy.

Ms. Mystery: Run, don't look back. I know it hurts, there's no escaping the pain of a broken heart. But the sooner you put him out of your life, the faster you can get over him and be happy again. He is not worth following, or chasing or getting revenge. He's already wasted four years of your life - don't waste another minute on him. If he's in love with this girl, who is cheating on her husband, then they deserve each other. Walk away. Hold your head up and open a new chapter in your life.