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How Do I know if My Husband is Bi?

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Question:  My husband likes watching the TV show, "Torchwood" all the time because of all of the guys kissing and having sex. Do you think this means he's bi-curious?

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Mr. Know: Never doubt women's intuition. If you're even asking the question, your subconscious has already answered. The question is, do you want to confront him or not? If you don't want to confront him, look for the signs such as flinging of the wrist, listening to the Village People's YMCA (I like that song and I'm not gay, so maybe not). See if he's sneaking off with the guys - I'm not trying to make you paranoid here, but

Do I Stay With a Cheater?

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Question:  I recently discovered my fiance cheated physically on his first wife with someone from work. He also cheated emotionally on his second wife with someone at work. When I asked him about this he lied to me and adamantly denied cheating on either one. Finally, he broke down and told the truth, that he did cheat. He swears he would never cheat on me but I see a pattern and it scares me. When I tell him I want out he cries hysterically, begging me back and threatening that he can't live without me. Should I leave because he lied and has a history of infidelity? If yes, how do I leave without breaking his heart?

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Ms. Mystery:  Well, it sounds like he's getting better with each wife. First it was physical, then only emotional the second time, so you should have nothing to worry about. Joking! Sort of.

So you are going to be number three. It's very possible he has learned a lesson and has grown up after those two bad marriages. Perhaps he married his first wife before he was

Should I Bring My Dad on My First Date?

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Question: I'm meeting my boyfriend for the first time in person and I am nervous! We met on the internet. I'm 15 and he's 17. He lives an hour away and we are going to meet tomorrow. How can I not be so nervous? I have no self-confidence.

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Mr. Know:  When I was 17, you could not pay me to date a 15 year old. Darling, he can't really be your boyfriend if you've never met. Have you seen his picture? This seems a little odd. If I were you, I would bring your dad with you. He could be a predator. Hello! You've seen it on TV.

Ms. Mystery:  Have you spoke to him on the phone or only online? Either way, take someone with you for protection the first time you meet him - take a strong man. Do NOT meet him alone or in an uncrowded place. Follow your instincts. You haven't met him so he's a stranger at this point. Many girls your age have been abducted in situations like this and sold into sex slavery. Sorry to scare you, but it's a fact! Be sure people know where you are going and who your are meeting.

Should I Dump My Pot-Head Husband?

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Question: My partner tells me I'm uptight and he's thinking about leaving me. We've been together for nine years and have a three year old son. When we first dated, we smoked pot a lot. When I found out I was pregnant, I stopped. My partner cut back for a while, but is now back to smoking every day. He tells me he rarely smokes, but I find Visine in his pockets. I'm worried he's lying to me and smoking behind my back.

He has a job and he gets his marijuana for free, so I can't complain that he's wasting money on it. However, I hoped he'd be past this phase by now so he can be a healthy example for our son. He never smokes around our son and never is high around him, but I feel like pot is holding him back. He's 34 and still hasn't gotten his GED. He sells cars and does okay, but this economy is unpredictable. I want him to stop smoking pot and get his GED so he'll have more options in his life. He complains that I'm uptight and trying to "change him," and doesn't want to quit smoking.

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Mr. Know: Pot head at 34... I've never done drugs, but I can tell you this guy's still thinks he's in high school. Smoking pot behind your back is not cool. When you're 34 and you still have not taken the initiative to take the GED, it's a perfect example of a pot head gone bad. I don't know how much you love this

Do Long Distance Relationships Work?

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Question: I need to know if I should end this once and for all. I've been in a long distance relationship with a woman for two years. It's had its ups and downs but I've always been there for her no matter what. She broke up with me once then came back. I accepted it because she showed me that she really loved me and wanted to be with me.

Now she says she doesn't want to commit until we're together all the time, but I can't do that right now. Her lack of commitment is stressing me out because I love her very much. I think it's just an excuse to be with another guy. She says she loves me but her actions don't show it.

If you really love someone, wouldn't you want to be committed to them? I'm just not sure it's worth the effort anymore.

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Ms. Mystery: A relationship takes the effort of two people, not just one. She's not giving her half to the relationship. You are there for her, and she's not there for you. You sound like a

Where Are All the Good Men?

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Question:  Where are all the good, funny, sexy and loyal men? I don't want a boy! 

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Ms. Mystery: Girl!!! 1st of all: The grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

2nd: You know how you go window shopping (no money) and you see tons of cute clothes you want? But when you are ready to buy you can't find anything? It's the same with men.

3rd: You only find Mr. Right when you aren't looking . Go find something else to do. Focus on your job, your hobbies, whatever. Forget about finding Mr. Right. Just enjoy life and

Is 20 Yrs Too Much Spread in Dating?

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Question: I have a guy friend I only know online. I have decided to end the friendship. He told me he had a one year relationship with an 18 year old girl and that last week he let another 18 year old girl take him out to dinner. He called this new girl "his sweetie". I find this repulsive. What on Earth can they have in common? She's just a kid. Maybe it's because I have a 13 year old daughter, but I find it disgusting.

I told this guy I can't be friends with anyone his age who hangs out with or dates women who are barely legal. He was extremely defensive, which makes me think I'm correct about it being wrong. I've only talked to this man online, but he has told that he's in love with me. I told him I only I like him only as a friend. He keeps asking to come visit me in person, but I'm really not interested in meeting him. I keep putting him off. What do others think about a 42-year-old hanging out with 18 to 22 year olds?

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Ms. Mystery: Guys his age dating women that much younger are insecure. We can only hope it's a phase where they are trying to recapture their youth. When I was 18, sure older guys were always hitting on me or flirting and I thought it was a

Should He Forgive Her for Affair?

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Question: I cheated on my boyfriend of five years. I felt terrible and was very depressed for a while. I kept my stress to myself, but then my boyfriend found out. He was crushed and I went back home to be with my family for a while in order to work things out, I know it will take time, but now everyone knows what I did. I know I must face my mistakes, but I'm worried about what his family thinks. I don't want them to think that i would ever anything like that again. My boyfriend and I are spending more time together. We love each other, but both know it will take time to heal things. What can I do to make things better?

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Mr. Know:  Don't worry about what his family might think. What really matters is what he thinks. Spending time together without any pressure is the right approach. What's going to be

Does Weight Make a Difference in Getting Dates?

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Question: Please be honest. I am 5'5" and 198 lbs. I have lost a lot of weight and am still working on it. I think I have a lot going for me and am 25 years old. Is my weight the reason why guys don't ask me out? 

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Mr. Know: Yes, you are heavy for your height and age. This maybe one reason why guys do not ask you out, but forget guys for one moment.

I'm concerned about your health. There was a time in my life where I was heavy too, after being a world class athlete and then screwing up my knee. I didn't like it and I decided to lose weight. It took me one year to lose it and I can tell you that losing the weight made me feel better. I have more energy and feel better about myself. I'm happier.

How did I do it? Simple. I started walking. First it was for 30 minutes per day for a few weeks. Then I got to about

Should I Cheat on My Husband?

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Question: I have been married for ten years and have four kids. We dated since we were 13 years old. When I was 15 I cheated on him and we broke up for two years. After that we got back together, got married and started a family. A guy I had sex with when I was 17 called me a few weeks ago, out of the blue. We've been chatting late at night. I know this is wrong! But it's exciting and I haven't felt this way in so many years. I'm so turned on that I want to cheat on my husband. Please help. Am I going to hell?

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Mr. Know: Congratulations on getting hooked up at 13. You need to stop all communication with this old boyfriend IMMEDIATELY. I speak from personal experience. My high school sweetheart contacted my brother and wanted to get my email and started e-mailing me. I did not communicate with