How to Get Over the Girl Who Messed with My Head

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Question: I really liked this really cute girl. We were close at one point, but out of nowhere she started ignoring me and started flirting with other guys in front of me. I was confused at first, then after a while I started not caring. Now she's calling my name, waving and smiling at me again. I just act cool, hanging with my friends and flirting with girls. If she gets close I just walk away. I don't feel the same about her anymore, but a small part of me misses what we had. It really drove me nuts then she was was ignoring me and it hurt. We're in the same science class, so I can't completely avoid her. How can I get over her?

Answers:
Ms. Mystery: Either she doesn't know what the heck she wants, or she likes you and decided to try to make you jealous in order to test you to see if you really liked her or not.

She flirted with other guys and it backfired. Instead, she drove you away and confused you. Now she's gone back to flirting with you. Dating is confusing. Everyone is afraid to be

rejected so we play it cool so we won't get hurt. Playing it cool never works!

She played it cool by flirting with others because she didn't know if you liked her or not. You are afraid of getting hurt, so you're playing it cool and avoiding her. If you like her, stop avoiding her and start by simply being a friend. We all want someone who likes us, and we all want to avoid getting hurt.

Mr. Know: There are people who just love to play games. It doesn't matter what gender it is. This girl has completely jerked you around like a roller coaster ride. Do not give her the pleasure of even thinking that you think she exists. The way she's treated you is not nice and whether you want to admit it or not, she's not even your friend.

Forget the fact that you've even had thoughts of her being your girlfriend. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who wants to jerk someone around? Whether your are a teen or 30 years old, always avoid people like that. The best thing to tell her her is "good luck and goodbye" and never look back. Good luck and Godspeed.

Comments

[Paladin]

She lost her attraction to you. You fell into the friend zone by not taking action for too long.

[noel7]

my girl did the dirt with me with my cousion i only found out to day my heart is brokin what do i do im fallin apart

[Regretful Morning]

I blogged about this some time ago - http://regretfulmorning.com/?p=21

Its all about attention. Once you stopped giving it, she came crawling back.