How Do I know if My Husband is Bi, Part 2

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Question: My husband seems to be attracted to our neighbor next door, I just have a very sick feeling that he likes him more than just for a friend. My husband gets upset and looks for him when he is not at home, he mows his grass and, water his lawn for him.... I feel a strange connection between them and I feel very uncomfortable around them. The neighbor does not like me around when he is with my husband, they always sit closer than others, there are so many things that I notice I can't write them all down... Most of all my gut feeling isn't a good one, what can I do to find out for sure?

Answers:
Mr. Know: I have some very bad news for you. One thing I have personally learned, being a guy, is that woman's intuition is one of the most powerful forces on the planet. Most men do not have this type of intuition and we are the inferior sex. Personally, without doing any spying, I think that your husband is cheating on you with this man. I find it insane that he would be mowing his lawn. Think about it. If you husband was mowing a woman's lawn, what would you think?

You need to confront him immediately, because I'm concerned as much for you physical health as you mental health. There are many bi-sexual men and women on this planet. This is not a strange situation, it happens all the time. Good luck and Godspeed.

p.s. Go get tested for HIV.

Ms. Mystery: Trust your feelings. You can hire a private detective but I suggest you save your money and ask him directly what is going on between him and the neighbor. This kind of thing happens and you must protect yourself. Trust your woman's intuition. When you ask him he may lie and say there is nothing going on. Most men accuse their wives of being crazy when asked if they are cheating. Don't buy it. It's a smoke screen. Look into his eyes and you will know the truth regardless of what he tells you.

Comments

[Ms. Mystery]

@Lynn - I have many men friends who joke around like that. Acting gay, going on about how much they want to "do" each other. They get pretty graphic, too. The guys I know for a fact are straight tell me they think that's gay, but I don't know for sure. I think you have to go by your guy feeling.
What do all the guys think about this?

[Lynn]

I know how you feel because I m going through the same thing only I would see msn messages or emails from his good friends saying how much they would love to have sex with each other and describe sexually about their private parts together and I have confronted to him about it many times. But he keeps saying they are just joking but I feel different about that. It is a very sick feeling that I feel with this...

[Happy]

Trust your intuition. Also, you have to talk to your husband and tell him what is bothering you. Choose your words carefully and do it with timing...