Simple Instructions on How To Meet Women

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Question: Please, I need your advice. I am 26 years old and I don't have girlfriend because I'm always shy whenever I'm with a lady. I'm tire of it. How do I start a conversation with a girl that I've never met before? How do I start a conversation so I can have a relationship (love or sex) with the ones I've have met before?

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Ms. Mystery: I have been asked this question more than anything. Girls are easy to meet! Sure there are some girls who just aren't friendly and if you find one of those, then just walk away. Many girls are open to new friendships which can lead to love or sex. Why do you think our world is so overpopulated? All these baby's came from somewhere.

Whether you've met before or not, all you have to do is strike up any kind of conversation. It doesn't really matter what you say. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself.

You can say something like "Have you been to this (park/coffeeshop) before?," "What are you drinking/reading?" or "You have beautiful eyes" (only if you mean it). Ask an open ended question that requires an answer other than "yes" or "no". If you're feeling really brave then be funny. Say something like "Wow, that couple in the corner needs to get a room" or tell a joke.

Say something! Anything. Then the girl will respond and then it's your turn. What do you do when you meet new guys? Don't put more pressure on yourself than when you meet guys. Your are simply meeting a new PERSON... perhaps you can be friends, perhaps more... time will tell. Just relax and be yourself. If the girl is interested she'll do her half to keep the conversation going. If not, simply walk on and find someone else to talk to. Remember: Girls are just people.

Mr. Know: You're asking two different questions. It's a lot easier to strike up a conversation with someone you've met before than with someone you don't know.

First of all, women are NOT from Venus. They are not aliens. They have the same wants and needs that you do. And a lot of those women are shy two. Shyness is not gender-specific.

For women you know, you can talk about anything because you've already met. The best way to start the conversation is to ask questions. The best conversationalist is someone who asks questions and listens. Striking up a conversation is all about confidence and practice. You should have no hidden agenda.

If you're trying to pick up a girl, you have to think of it as a numbers game. You're going to get turned down a lot - unless you look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney. But you're going to hit some as well.  It's very important not to sound or act nervous.

This is a tough question for me. I've never picked up a girl because I never looked at it from that perspective. I always tried to just chat with people.

The best way to learn how to talk to women or anyone is to read the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It's a great book. You can even use it to communicate with aliens. I've read it more than three times (and so has Ms. Mystery). Good luck and Godspeed.