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My Girl Slept with My Cousin!

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Question: My girl did the dirt with my cousin. I only found out today my heart is broken. What do I do? I'm falling apart.

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Ms. Mystery:  Your girl did the dirt with your cousin!? That absolutely sucks. Of course it hurts. Of course she's not worthy of a single tear from you, and not worthy of your thoughts. And she was never even worthy of being your girlfriend. Telling you all this doesn't help ease your pain right now. It still hurts like hell! And that she did this with your cousin? What the heck was he thinking doing that to you? Unfortunately you can't pick your family.

Your broken heart feels very real. I know, I've had my share of them myself. And unfortunately it happens to EVERYBODY. Look around, everyone has had a broken heart or two or several. Thousands of songs have been written by broken hearts. Listen to the radio and you'll hear song after song about broken hearts.

I have found that it takes 50% of the time you were together to completely get over that person. Unless you keep letting them string you along - don't let that happen because then it might take even longer.

I promise that after the pain has eased and you can see clearly, you will wonder why the hell you ever dated her in the first place. You will feel nothing for her. You will find another, wonderful girl, who won't do this to you. Please don't be the guy who never trusts any other girls after this one "rotten apple."

I know of a guy who caught his girl cheating with his best friend in high school. He's in his late 40s and still won't open himself up to women. He has never been married or even had a long-term girlfriend. Don't let this cheating, lying girl ruin you for future relationships! Don't give her that power over you.

I know of another guy who caught his WIFE cheating with his BROTHER! He got divorced, then his ex-wife married his brother! His broken heart healed and now he realizes that he's actually very lucky and his brother's now stuck with this girl.

I promise you are lucky to find out what she is like now instead of later. Time does heal all wounds.

Mr. Know:  There's no need for you to fall apart. Drop her like a hot potato and don't look back. This girl is bad news. And please, don't try to think of million reasons why you should stay together.

Simple Instructions on How To Meet Women

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Question: Please, I need your advice. I am 26 years old and I don't have girlfriend because I'm always shy whenever I'm with a lady. I'm tire of it. How do I start a conversation with a girl that I've never met before? How do I start a conversation so I can have a relationship (love or sex) with the ones I've have met before?

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Ms. Mystery: I have been asked this question more than anything. Girls are easy to meet! Sure there are some girls who just aren't friendly and if you find one of those, then just walk away. Many girls are open to new friendships which can lead to love or sex. Why do you think our world is so overpopulated? All these baby's came from somewhere.

Whether you've met before or not, all you have to do is strike up any kind of conversation. It doesn't really matter what you say. Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself.

When She Just Wants to be 'Friends'

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Question: I'm a 15 year old boy, in high school. A year ago a new girl moved to my school. She was in my class and after a few months she and I became close friends.

I developed feelings for her and during a conversation on instant messaging I asked her, "Have you had any feelings for anybody at our school?" She replied that she liked me and another boy. She wasn't aware I had feelings for her. A month later, I told her I had feelings for her but I didn't want it to affect our friendship. And she replied that it wouldn't.

A few weeks later I decided I wanted to take things further with her, so I asked her out. She said she didn't feel the same way and she was sorry. She and I stayed friends after that - best friends.

How Do I Strike Up a Gonversation with a Girl I've Never Met?

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Question: If I see a girl I don't know in a cafe, and she keep looking at me and our eyes meet, what should I do if I want to meet her? What if she's alone at the table? What if she's with friends or family? Sometimes I feel shy when girls look at me! Please help me.

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Ms. Mystery: If a girl keeps looking at you and catching your eye, she is obviously attracted to you.  Remember that girls are people too. They want the same things and have the same worries that guys do.

Help with Erections & Sex please!

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Question: I'm 17 and dating a girl who I love to bits. The problem is that last night we tried to have sex (we're both virgins) and I couldn't get it up. I get an erection fine when I'm alone.  We're both kind of shy and she doesn't like showing herself off much, but I need some help!

I felt really nervous sorta, and I was a little tired. I'm quite a nervous person anyway but I'm not sure that could be the cause of it. It was so embarrassing and now I permanently feel inadequate and... like crap. What is wrong with me? LOL

How Can I Stop My Lover from Leaving Me for a Sugar Daddy?

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Question: I have been in a gay relationship for five years with my boyfriend, throughout the five years he has cheated on me various times and hit me. And every time I forgave him and let him come back.

I've also cheated on him out of revenge and done things he doesn’t know about. I want this so bad to work out, but I'm tired of crying for him and him crying for me.  We just keep going in circles.

Last time we broke up and got back together, I gave up everything he asked me to. I expected us to work on things to finally get it together and be happy. Well he told me that while we were still together and he was in California for a month, he posted a craigslist ad and found a  wealthy man who wined and dined him while he was out there. He said he came back to live with me again because it was best place for his daughters to grow up and I wanted to help as much as I can.

Lying and Online Dating

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Question: I have always wanted someone to love but have never really dated. I had a troubled childhood. Abusive parents and sexually abused by my older brothers. It was such hell that during the abuse I would pretend to be somewhere else. I feel so dirty and ashamed about my life and what has happened to me that started lying to everyone in my life during my teens. I never let anyone get close to me because I was afraid they'd learn the truth and that they'd reject me sexually if they knew the truth.

I am in my mid twenties and am lonely so I started chatting online to meet a potential mate. I started enjoying the discussions and actually met someone after a few weeks who I like. This person was closed at first, like I am. Then they opened up and I feel like they are just like me. The only problem is that I haven't opened up to them. I have lied about where I came from, where I work everything except my true

Help! I'm Commitment-Phobic

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Question: I have a big problem with commitment. I am a 31 year old woman. I have confidence and other people tell me I'm an outgoing and pleasing person. However, I have a problem committing to my relationships.

I have been in 5 'committed' relationships, between one and four years long. But after the first couple of months I get bored, then I'm unfaithful and find a way to get out of the relationship. I've always made sure my partners get the blame and make them feel guilty, but I know the problem is me.

After I leave them I miss them and feel bad about what I have done. I call them, but in the meantime have a new 'lover'. I end up in a situation of having a 'committed' relationship with a man, while still phoning, visiting and having sex with my previous partner. I can not carry on like this anymore. Last night I 'dumped' my partner only to be with someone 'new' I met two weeks ago at a friend's place. I am still uncertain about going back to my previous, previous partner. Please help!

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Ms. Mystery: You do have a problem. Perhaps you just aren't a person who should be committed and you should start being up front about it instead of hurting these guys. Just face it, you may never find the right guy. However if you do eventually want to get married, you will need to stop what you are doing and be faithful. Perhaps you jump from one relationship to the

Did He Mean What He Said When He was Drunk?

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Question: I have a guy friend who I've known for several years.  We talk a lot and and I really like him. My problem is that I don't know what he thinks or wants. We talk nearly every day on the phone. Last week we spent two evenings together. One of those nights he was drinking and told me he cares about me and he wants to be with me.  I told him it was just the alcohol talking and blew him off.  What do I do?  I really like this guy, but I don't know what to think. I don't want to be pushy! What should I do? 

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Ms. Mystery: This is an easy one! I've answered this one so many times to my girlfriends. First of all, alcohol lowers your inhibitions, so you say the things that you are afraid to say when you are sober. You tell the truth. Believe it, he really does care and wants to be with you!

The #1 thing that screws up love is FEAR! He had fear of telling you how he felt until he had a few drinks. Now you have fear that he didn't mean what he said and are afraid of

How to Get Over the Girl Who Messed with My Head

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Question: I really liked this really cute girl. We were close at one point, but out of nowhere she started ignoring me and started flirting with other guys in front of me. I was confused at first, then after a while I started not caring. Now she's calling my name, waving and smiling at me again. I just act cool, hanging with my friends and flirting with girls. If she gets close I just walk away. I don't feel the same about her anymore, but a small part of me misses what we had. It really drove me nuts then she was was ignoring me and it hurt. We're in the same science class, so I can't completely avoid her. How can I get over her?

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Ms. Mystery: Either she doesn't know what the heck she wants, or she likes you and decided to try to make you jealous in order to test you to see if you really liked her or not.

She flirted with other guys and it backfired. Instead, she drove you away and confused you. Now she's gone back to flirting with you. Dating is confusing. Everyone is afraid to be