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My Girl Slept with My Cousin!

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Question: My girl did the dirt with my cousin. I only found out today my heart is broken. What do I do? I'm falling apart.

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Ms. Mystery:  Your girl did the dirt with your cousin!? That absolutely sucks. Of course it hurts. Of course she's not worthy of a single tear from you, and not worthy of your thoughts. And she was never even worthy of being your girlfriend. Telling you all this doesn't help ease your pain right now. It still hurts like hell! And that she did this with your cousin? What the heck was he thinking doing that to you? Unfortunately you can't pick your family.

Your broken heart feels very real. I know, I've had my share of them myself. And unfortunately it happens to EVERYBODY. Look around, everyone has had a broken heart or two or several. Thousands of songs have been written by broken hearts. Listen to the radio and you'll hear song after song about broken hearts.

I have found that it takes 50% of the time you were together to completely get over that person. Unless you keep letting them string you along - don't let that happen because then it might take even longer.

I promise that after the pain has eased and you can see clearly, you will wonder why the hell you ever dated her in the first place. You will feel nothing for her. You will find another, wonderful girl, who won't do this to you. Please don't be the guy who never trusts any other girls after this one "rotten apple."

I know of a guy who caught his girl cheating with his best friend in high school. He's in his late 40s and still won't open himself up to women. He has never been married or even had a long-term girlfriend. Don't let this cheating, lying girl ruin you for future relationships! Don't give her that power over you.

I know of another guy who caught his WIFE cheating with his BROTHER! He got divorced, then his ex-wife married his brother! His broken heart healed and now he realizes that he's actually very lucky and his brother's now stuck with this girl.

I promise you are lucky to find out what she is like now instead of later. Time does heal all wounds.

Mr. Know:  There's no need for you to fall apart. Drop her like a hot potato and don't look back. This girl is bad news. And please, don't try to think of million reasons why you should stay together.

Should I Divorce Him?

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Question: Is it reasonable to want out of this marriage? My husband of 4 years suffers from depression. I made him get treatment when I found out I was pregnant. Now our baby is 8 months old. My husband has been on medication and in therapy for a year and I'm not sure it's working.

He is more pleasant and manages his anger, but he talks about suicide often. On Friday he was fired from job. This is the second time in a year. We are in a financial bind and may lose our house.

First of all, I can't stand the stress of another financial disaster, after the first time he was fired. Second, I am worried about our baby being around such an unstable person, even though he treats our child wonderfully. Should I get out of this relationship?

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Mr. Know: Just reading your question, I wanted to shoot myself. I'm going to give you some blunt answers. You may not

Wife's Affair Broke Up Marriage: How to Protect the Kids

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Question: I am wondering if I have any rights to protect my children from being around my future ex-wife's boyfriend. They had an affair and broke up our marriage. Now I have strong feelings that the kids shouldn't be exposed to a life around him - or any time with him even though they have not met him yet.

Answer: Ms. Mystery & Mr. Know: This is a great question many divorced parents are wanting to know. First of all, it sounds like you really care about your kids. This can get you far in family court.

We are not lawyers or legal experts, however we do know that many states will allow a provision in the divorce papers stating that the parents cannot have overnight guests of the opposite

Do I Stay With a Cheater?

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Question:  I recently discovered my fiance cheated physically on his first wife with someone from work. He also cheated emotionally on his second wife with someone at work. When I asked him about this he lied to me and adamantly denied cheating on either one. Finally, he broke down and told the truth, that he did cheat. He swears he would never cheat on me but I see a pattern and it scares me. When I tell him I want out he cries hysterically, begging me back and threatening that he can't live without me. Should I leave because he lied and has a history of infidelity? If yes, how do I leave without breaking his heart?

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Ms. Mystery:  Well, it sounds like he's getting better with each wife. First it was physical, then only emotional the second time, so you should have nothing to worry about. Joking! Sort of.

So you are going to be number three. It's very possible he has learned a lesson and has grown up after those two bad marriages. Perhaps he married his first wife before he was

Should I Be Friends with My Ex's Boyfriend?

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Question:  My ex-wife and I have been separated for six months. We broke up after I caught her having countless affairs. She introduced her new boyfriend to our children about a week after we separated. They've been dating now for six months but I only recently met him. I shook hands with him and introduced myself. My ex seemed to not like the fact that I was nice to him and kept rolling her eyes and giving me rude looks. She kept hinting for me to leave, and showing him signs of aggravation. I'm concerned about what people are around my children since her choice of friends in the past hasn't been the best. Was I wrong to introduce myself to her boyfriend?

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Mr. Know: Of course you were not wrong to introduce yourself. You should meet anyone who is going to have influence on your