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My Girl Slept with My Cousin!

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Question: My girl did the dirt with my cousin. I only found out today my heart is broken. What do I do? I'm falling apart.

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Ms. Mystery:  Your girl did the dirt with your cousin!? That absolutely sucks. Of course it hurts. Of course she's not worthy of a single tear from you, and not worthy of your thoughts. And she was never even worthy of being your girlfriend. Telling you all this doesn't help ease your pain right now. It still hurts like hell! And that she did this with your cousin? What the heck was he thinking doing that to you? Unfortunately you can't pick your family.

Your broken heart feels very real. I know, I've had my share of them myself. And unfortunately it happens to EVERYBODY. Look around, everyone has had a broken heart or two or several. Thousands of songs have been written by broken hearts. Listen to the radio and you'll hear song after song about broken hearts.

I have found that it takes 50% of the time you were together to completely get over that person. Unless you keep letting them string you along - don't let that happen because then it might take even longer.

I promise that after the pain has eased and you can see clearly, you will wonder why the hell you ever dated her in the first place. You will feel nothing for her. You will find another, wonderful girl, who won't do this to you. Please don't be the guy who never trusts any other girls after this one "rotten apple."

I know of a guy who caught his girl cheating with his best friend in high school. He's in his late 40s and still won't open himself up to women. He has never been married or even had a long-term girlfriend. Don't let this cheating, lying girl ruin you for future relationships! Don't give her that power over you.

I know of another guy who caught his WIFE cheating with his BROTHER! He got divorced, then his ex-wife married his brother! His broken heart healed and now he realizes that he's actually very lucky and his brother's now stuck with this girl.

I promise you are lucky to find out what she is like now instead of later. Time does heal all wounds.

Mr. Know:  There's no need for you to fall apart. Drop her like a hot potato and don't look back. This girl is bad news. And please, don't try to think of million reasons why you should stay together.

Help with Erections & Sex please!

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Question: I'm 17 and dating a girl who I love to bits. The problem is that last night we tried to have sex (we're both virgins) and I couldn't get it up. I get an erection fine when I'm alone.  We're both kind of shy and she doesn't like showing herself off much, but I need some help!

I felt really nervous sorta, and I was a little tired. I'm quite a nervous person anyway but I'm not sure that could be the cause of it. It was so embarrassing and now I permanently feel inadequate and... like crap. What is wrong with me? LOL

How Do I know if My Husband is Bi, Part 2

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Question: My husband seems to be attracted to our neighbor next door, I just have a very sick feeling that he likes him more than just for a friend. My husband gets upset and looks for him when he is not at home, he mows his grass and, water his lawn for him.... I feel a strange connection between them and I feel very uncomfortable around them. The neighbor does not like me around when he is with my husband, they always sit closer than others, there are so many things that I notice I can't write them all down... Most of all my gut feeling isn't a good one, what can I do to find out for sure?

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Mr. Know: I have some very bad news for you. One thing I have personally learned, being a guy, is that woman's intuition is one of the most powerful forces on the planet. Most men do not have this type of intuition and we are the inferior sex. Personally, without doing any spying, I think that your husband is cheating on you with this man. I find it insane that he would be mowing his lawn. Think about it. If you husband was mowing a woman's lawn, what would you think?

The Secret to Pleasing a Woman in Bed

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Question: Until 16 days ago, my wife and I made love almost every day. Suddenly  I'm not looking forward to it at all. I'm 43 and she's 34 and we've been happily married for 12 years. I'm the one who wanted it every day. If it were up to her, we'd do it twice a week.

We've been happily married for 12 years. I'm the one who always wanted it every day. If it were up to her we'd do it a couple of times a week. I have a feeling she does it for me out of obligation, not pleasure. This suspicion didn't bother me until two weeks ago when I asked her how similar she thought the feeling inside her vaginal walls were compared to the sensitivity of my penis. I used to think the first few inches in the vagina felt pleasure during sex and expected her to say it felt great for her too. Her answer stunned me.

She said she doesn't really feel anything inside! I need to know she really enjoys sex or I can't reach orgasm. Now that I know she doesn't feel anything inside, I've totally lost interest in sex.

I used to love thinking about sex all day and having fun with our little inside sex jokes, innuendos, gentle kissing and touches, but now it's all gone. My wife says she's happy I haven't talked about sex lately. I am totally and secretly falling apart inside. I've since read that other women have limited feeling of the vaginal walls. I've known for years that she doesn't put fingers inside while masturbating and that didn't mean anything to me until now.

I want to talk to her, but she hates talking about sex, so she would get defensive and feel hurt. If I keep it to myself it will

Is Phone Sex Cheating?

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Question: I am in an argument with my best friend. Is phone sex cheating? She is married and has three kids and told me she had phone sex with one of her old boyfriends who she was madly in love with before she got married. She says she doesn't think what she did is wrong.

I'm shocked! What do you think? Is it wrong to have phone sex with someone else while you are married? Is that considered cheating?

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Ms. Mystery: First of all, yes your friend was emotionally cheating on her husband by relating that way with another man. You know her husband would see it as cheating. Ask your friend how she'd feel if her husband did the same. If that really wouldn't bother her then she either doesn't love him, or they

How Do I know if My Husband is Bi?

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Question:  My husband likes watching the TV show, "Torchwood" all the time because of all of the guys kissing and having sex. Do you think this means he's bi-curious?

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Mr. Know: Never doubt women's intuition. If you're even asking the question, your subconscious has already answered. The question is, do you want to confront him or not? If you don't want to confront him, look for the signs such as flinging of the wrist, listening to the Village People's YMCA (I like that song and I'm not gay, so maybe not). See if he's sneaking off with the guys - I'm not trying to make you paranoid here, but

Should I Cheat on My Husband?

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Question: I have been married for ten years and have four kids. We dated since we were 13 years old. When I was 15 I cheated on him and we broke up for two years. After that we got back together, got married and started a family. A guy I had sex with when I was 17 called me a few weeks ago, out of the blue. We've been chatting late at night. I know this is wrong! But it's exciting and I haven't felt this way in so many years. I'm so turned on that I want to cheat on my husband. Please help. Am I going to hell?

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Mr. Know: Congratulations on getting hooked up at 13. You need to stop all communication with this old boyfriend IMMEDIATELY. I speak from personal experience. My high school sweetheart contacted my brother and wanted to get my email and started e-mailing me. I did not communicate with

Should I Stay with My Sugar Daddy?

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Question: I have dated the same guy for two years. I don't feel like our relationship is going anywhere. I don't feel happy like I used to. I keep thinking about my ex boyfriend who's in a relationship and has a baby. My boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually anymore and we fight all the time. Sometimes I want to be with him and sometimes I don't. I cheated on him before and am considering doing it again. The problem is that if I leave him, I can't make it financially and I seem to be addicted to him. I am confused and don't know what to do. Please help.

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Mr. Know: Are you kidding me? Let me get this straight: you are not happy with him, you think about your ex, you've cheated on your boyfriend, you are not sexually satisfied and you are considering cheating on him again. You are addicted to him because he is financially taking care of you. Basically, he is your Sugar Daddy. From the way I see it, you are performing "services" for being able to have a roof over your head. Your options are really simple: (1) Get a new sugar daddy that you like and can get along with, (2) leave and find

Can't Get Erection

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Question: My penis is not raising during my intercourse. I am only 22. I tried to have sex with my girlfriend but could not get hard. Instead, I get a sharp pain in my testes after foreplay. I am very frustrated and worried. Please help me with this.

Answers:

Mr. Know: Take a deep breath, count to 10 and call your doctor. I think this is a physical issue.  Tell us if you're okay,

Ms. Mystery: This sounds like a physical problem only your doctor can help. There are many things that can cause the pain you describe. It could be caused by a sexually transmitted disease. Have you had unprotected sex lately?  Pain in your testicles during sex or urination means you probably have an inflammation in your testes, urethra, epididymis, or prostate. It's most likely some sort of bacteria that you contacted through unsafe sex or bad hygiene. This can easily be treated with antibiotics. Visit your doctor immediately so you can get treated and stop worrying.

Sports or Sex?

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Question:  I like a guy and I think he likes me too, but he doesn't want to ask me out until baseball season is over. He says he'd never get to see me. Baseball season ends in four months! Should I wait for this guy?

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Mr. Know: This is an easy question for me to answer. 1. I hate Baseball. 2. There's no way this guy is playing baseball 8 hours a day, therefore he has a 'piss ant' excuse. 3. Baseball games are really long anyway. You'd be bored if you went to the games, so find another guy in the stands and go on your merry